Why Mindfulness Alone Often Fails Trauma Survivors
Mindfulness is often recommended as a solution for stress, anxiety, and emotional overwhelm. For some people, it helps. But for many trauma survivors, mindfulness can feel frustrating, ineffective, or even destabilising. As Reshie explains in the conversation: “Mindfulness assumes the nervous system can safely turn inward. For many trauma survivors, that isn’t true yet.” This […]
Why Trauma Lives in the Body: Stress, Illness, and the Cost of Disconnection
When people think about trauma, they often think about thoughts, memories, or emotions. They rarely think about digestion, breathing, muscle tension, immune health, or chronic fatigue. But trauma does not live only in the mind. It lives in the body. As Reshie explains in the conversation: “The nervous system doesn’t just store experience as memory. […]
Why Trauma Looks Different in Every Person
One of the most confusing aspects of trauma is how differently it shows up from person to person. Two people may experience similar events, yet one develops panic attacks while the other feels emotionally numb. One becomes hyper-alert and reactive. Another shuts down, disconnects, or feels nothing at all. As Reshie says in the conversation: […]
The Three Ways Trauma Develops (Including the One Most People Miss)
When people hear the word trauma, they often imagine something extreme. A car accident, an assault, a sudden loss. Something obvious. Something that clearly “counts.” But in clinical work, trauma rarely looks that simple. In fact, many people who struggle with trauma symptoms do not recognise themselves as traumatised at all. They often say things […]
Reshie Joseph Keynote Speech at the National Counselling & Psychotherapy Conference, Singapore
Clinical Director Reshie Joseph was recently a keynote speaker at the National Counselling & Psychotherapy Conference in Singapore. This is keynote speech on Diathesis Stress and the Living Free Program.
Common Trauma Healing Myths That Keep People Stuck
Trauma healing is often misunderstood. Many people begin their recovery journey with hope, only to feel confused or discouraged when healing does not happen the way they were told it would. These struggles are not a sign of failure. In many cases, they are the result of common trauma healing myths that quietly shape expectations […]
People-Pleasing as a Trauma Response: Understanding the Fawn Response
People-pleasing is often seen as a personality trait or a learned social habit. In reality, for many trauma survivors, it is a deeply ingrained survival strategy. Within trauma psychology, this pattern is known as the fawn response, a nervous system reaction that develops when safety depends on appeasing others. Unlike healthy cooperation or kindness, trauma-based […]
What Trauma Really Is: Why It’s Not About What Happened, but What Happened Inside You
When people hear the word trauma, they often think of extreme events: war, assault, serious accidents, or catastrophic loss. Many people quietly rule themselves out. “I didn’t go through anything that bad.” “Other people had it much worse.” “Nothing dramatic ever happened to me.” And yet, in therapy rooms, trauma shows up every day in […]
Freeze Response in Trauma Survivors: When Survival Means Stillness
The freeze response in trauma survivors is one of the most misunderstood trauma reactions. Unlike fight or flight, freeze appears quiet, passive, and often invisible, yet it is one of the body’s most powerful survival strategies. Many trauma survivors live with chronic shutdown, emotional numbness, or paralysis without realizing these experiences are rooted in their […]
How Long Does Trauma Therapy Take?
How long does trauma therapy take? This is one of the most common questions people ask when considering support for trauma recovery. While the desire for a clear timeline is understandable, trauma therapy does not follow a universal schedule. Healing unfolds differently for each person, shaped by nervous system responses, life context, and the type […]